Lily Womble, dating coach and founder of "Date Brazen," flips patriarchal dating on its head and challenges you to ask for what you want.

It’s not your fault dating sucks, that the patriarchy has screwed up how you find love. From addictive dating apps to advice like "Stop being so picky!" (aka "Don’t trust yourself"), dating can be exhausting.

Before becoming a feminist dating coach, Womble was one of the top matchmakers in the United States, but in her personal life she was settling for unhealthy "situationships." Her deepest fear was that she wasn’t deserving of the love and partnership she craved, and she needed to learn how to not settle and to attract love on her terms. In Thank You, More Please, Womble shares the steps she followed to create a confident and joyful dating life.